GUIDELINES

1) Do not advise others to stay in, or leave, their relationships. And do not give any advice -- direct or implied -- at all. Please just share your own experience, strength, and hope --and others can glean for themselves, what they would like to do. 1/3 of marriages (and more, in alcoholic homes) have domestic violence, and we do NOT know enough about any situation, on the internet, to make suggestions that would, for certain, not put them in danger, if they carried them out.

2) Please do not post about other web sites or products without prior permission from Toby.

3) In order to help keep your postings safe/private---

4) If you want to quote from a published work, it must be (copyright law) limited to no more than 50 words.

5) If you want to know if something you want to post is appropriate, please do not post, asking it! Please email me to ask if it is appropriate. Also--- if you are having difficulty with learning how to post or whatever, email me.

POSTS IN VIOLATION OF THE ABOVE WILL BE REMOVED. ADDITIONALLY, ANY INAPPROPRIATE POSTS MAY BE DELETED.